Men's Dating Advice from Ace of Hearts Academy
The dating world can be a daunting thing in more ways than one. The Ace of Hearts Academy podcast was created to help men navigate the world of dating without sacrificing who they are or settling for less. Hi, my name is David Bower, your host for the AOHA podcast. Years ago, I used to be terrible with women. I used to be unable to even speak to a woman no matter how much I liked her. In fact, if I liked her, it was harder and I could barely even look her in the eyes. My confidence with women was ridiculously low and I had every self-doubt in the book holding me back. I made it my mission I was going to get this figured out. I was going to learn the rules of the dating game if it took me the rest of my life. I studied dating and relationships from every possible angle I could think of. Now, 10 years later, I have developed massive confidence with women and women ask me out. That's right, nerdy, geeky, not buff, not tall me. Here you will learn the techniques and, more importantly, t...
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Monday Feb 20, 2023
Monday Feb 20, 2023
How to Get a Date Quickly We're guys. We see the pretty girl and we want a date quickly. There's nothing wrong with that it's perfectly natural. The problem is it's not as easy as we'd like it to be. In this episode I'm going to share with you a technique you can use anywhere, anytime, to ask women out and the best part is it's something you're already good at doing. Believe it or not, you can create incredible attraction with women with just this one technique and it is far easier than you think. At the end of this video I do have a special announcement so stay tuned for that as well. As always, Get out there and Ace it! Attraction Mastery Course: https://www.aceofheartsacademy.com/attraction-mastery-course Website: https://www.aceofheartsacademy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ace-of-Hearts-Academy-146510247533183/ Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEO1vSBskhpGUH8APoer41w iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mens-dating-advice-from-ace-of-hearts-academy/id1614493580 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hY2Utb2YtaGVhcnRzLWFjYWRlbXkuY2FwdGl2YXRlLmZtL3Jzc2ZlZWQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aceofheartsacademy/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AceofHeartsAca1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/aceofheartsacademy/_saved/ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction 00:28 What Most Men Don’t Do 00:48 Listen to Her 01:48 Listen to Details in What She Says 01:33 Conclusion #attraction #attractionpsychology #confidence #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #relationshipadviceformen YouTube Link for this Video: https://youtu.be/nbf13sZzMMs
Monday Feb 13, 2023
Monday Feb 13, 2023
It's Valentine's Day and I still don't have a date. Well it's not completely game over. In my last episode I covered what I would do if I didn't have a date for Valentine's Day … and most of that strategy requires you to go out and meet somebody. But some of you have asked me ... well what if I work from home and don't really have a lot of opportunities to go out and physically meet people? In this episode I'm going to give you my personal emergency plan that I would use if I still didn't have a date on Valentine's Day. At the end of this video I also have a special announcement so stay tuned for that. As always, Get out there and Ace it! Attraction Mastery Course: https://www.aceofheartsacademy.com/attraction-mastery-course Website: https://www.aceofheartsacademy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ace-of-Hearts-Academy-146510247533183/ Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEO1vSBskhpGUH8APoer41w iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mens-dating-advice-from-ace-of-hearts-academy/id1614493580 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hY2Utb2YtaGVhcnRzLWFjYWRlbXkuY2FwdGl2YXRlLmZtL3Jzc2ZlZWQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aceofheartsacademy/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AceofHeartsAca1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/aceofheartsacademy/_saved/ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction 00:56 Valentines Day Events for Singles 01:54 Commit to Getting Out 02:07 Conclusion 02:41 Special Announcement #attraction #attractionpsychology #confidence #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #relationshipadviceformen YouTube Link for this Video: https://youtu.be/aSeDqoDHOps
Sunday Feb 05, 2023
Sunday Feb 05, 2023
Valentine's Day as some of us know can also be known as single awareness day. I get it it's hard to watch other people making plans with their significant other and you have no one to make plans with but it doesn't have to be this way. Sometimes it’s hard to know if there might be someone out there that is attracted to you. And a little secret... some women out there are having the same problem as you are right now. In this episode I'm going to teach you my personal fast track strategy for if I was looking to find a date for Valentine's Day. As always, Get out there and Ace it! Website: https://www.aceofheartsacademy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ace-of-Hearts-Academy-146510247533183/ Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEO1vSBskhpGUH8APoer41w iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mens-dating-advice-from-ace-of-hearts-academy/id1614493580 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hY2Utb2YtaGVhcnRzLWFjYWRlbXkuY2FwdGl2YXRlLmZtL3Jzc2ZlZWQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aceofheartsacademy/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AceofHeartsAca1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/aceofheartsacademy/_saved/ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction 00:35 Step 1 Observe Potential Attraction 01:21 Step 2 Ask the Question 02:23 Step 3 Propose the Meeting 03:24 Conclusion 03:53 Special Announcement #attraction #attractionpsychology #confidence #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #relationshipadviceformen YouTube Link for this Video: https://youtu.be/o0RKqitNlk0
Sunday Jan 29, 2023
Sunday Jan 29, 2023
We've all seen the movie where the guy walks in the room and seemingly without doing anything girls approach him. But, do you actually believe that such a thing is real? Well I'm here to tell you that yes this is possible and anyone can learn how to do it. By the end of this video you will know how to make your attractiveness to women your second nature. At the end of this video I also have a special announcement so stay tuned for that. As always, Get out there and Ace it! Website: https://www.aceofheartsacademy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ace-of-Hearts-Academy-146510247533183/ Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEO1vSBskhpGUH8APoer41w iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mens-dating-advice-from-ace-of-hearts-academy/id1614493580 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hY2Utb2YtaGVhcnRzLWFjYWRlbXkuY2FwdGl2YXRlLmZtL3Jzc2ZlZWQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aceofheartsacademy/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AceofHeartsAca1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/aceofheartsacademy/_saved/ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction 00:50 Creating Psychological Attraction with Women 01:20 Creating Attraction with Women Using Confidence 02:06 Using Technique to Create Attraction with Women 02:57 Conclusion 03:44 Special Announcement #attraction #attractionpsychology #confidence #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #relationshipadviceformen YouTube Link for this Video: https://youtu.be/h-SFoPd3bvY
Saturday Jan 21, 2023
Saturday Jan 21, 2023
Today's world is largely based on the approval of others. The problem is that carries over into trying to create attraction with women. But the biggest problem is that we as men are in fact seeking her approval which causes us not to be our authentic selves when trying to find a woman to date. By the end of this episode you will understand why seeking women’s approval is actually hurting your chances of creating attraction with women and how being your authentic self will actually get you further. At the end of this video I also have a special announcement so stay tuned for that. As always, Get out there and Ace it! Website: https://www.aceofheartsacademy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ace-of-Hearts-Academy-146510247533183/ Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEO1vSBskhpGUH8APoer41w iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mens-dating-advice-from-ace-of-hearts-academy/id1614493580 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hY2Utb2YtaGVhcnRzLWFjYWRlbXkuY2FwdGl2YXRlLmZtL3Jzc2ZlZWQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aceofheartsacademy/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AceofHeartsAca1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/aceofheartsacademy/_saved/ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction 00:47 The Psychology of NOT Seeking Her Approval 01:17 The Confidence of NOT Seeking Her Approval 01:42 The Dos and Donts of Seeking Her Approval 02:25 The Technique of NOT Seeking Her Approval 02:48 Conclusion 03:49 Special Announcement #attraction #attractionpsychology #confidence #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #relationshipadviceformen YouTube Link for this Video: https://youtu.be/AXWxWWwqg1k
Sunday Jan 15, 2023
Sunday Jan 15, 2023
Have you ever gone into a game you didn't practice for or a test you didn't study for. Don't try to deny it …because we all have …and it feels awful. Fortunately, it doesn't have to be this way when you're approaching women even if it's for the first time. By the end of this episode you will understand why pre-game is so important to your initial approach with women and how to pre-game to get the best results. At the end of this video I want to tell you how you can get a more in depth knowledge of what I'm about to discuss here today so stay tuned for that as well. As always, Get out there and Ace it! Website: https://www.aceofheartsacademy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ace-of-Hearts-Academy-146510247533183/ Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEO1vSBskhpGUH8APoer41w iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mens-dating-advice-from-ace-of-hearts-academy/id1614493580 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hY2Utb2YtaGVhcnRzLWFjYWRlbXkuY2FwdGl2YXRlLmZtL3Jzc2ZlZWQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aceofheartsacademy/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AceofHeartsAca1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/aceofheartsacademy/_saved/ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction 00:52 How to Create Psychological Pre-Game Attraction 01:22 How to Create Confidence Pre-Game Attraction 01:44 How to Create Technique Pre-Game Attraction 02:11 Conclusion 02:24 Special Announcement #attraction #attractionpsychology #confidence #datingadvice #datingadviceformen #relationshipadviceformen YouTube Link for this Video: https://youtu.be/aCzzF2cJYYI
Sunday Jan 08, 2023
Sunday Jan 08, 2023
I'm gonna go out on a limb here and say that the reason you're watching or listening to this is because you're having trouble finding a girlfriend. That's OK there's lots of guys with this problem. Quite often it's because they don't understand what they're doing when they are interacting with a woman. Fortunately, I have boiled this entire process of attraction down to three basic principles so without further ado let's discuss that. By the end of this episode, you will understand how to use the three principles of attraction to create attraction so you can potentially find a girlfriend ... ... I know…this one's pretty straightforward. At the end of this video I also have a special announcement so stay tuned for that. As always, Get out there and Ace it! Website: https://www.aceofheartsacademy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ace-of-Hearts-Academy-146510247533183/ Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEO1vSBskhpGUH8APoer41w iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mens-dating-advice-from-ace-of-hearts-academy/id1614493580 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hY2Utb2YtaGVhcnRzLWFjYWRlbXkuY2FwdGl2YXRlLmZtL3Jzc2ZlZWQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aceofheartsacademy/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AceofHeartsAca1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/aceofheartsacademy/_saved/ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction 01:02 The 3 Principles of Attraction 01:33 The Attraction Principle of Psychology 02:36 The Attraction Principle of Confidence 03:22 The Attraction Principle of Technique 04:27 Conclusion #attraction #attraction psychology #confidence #dating advice #dating advice for men #relationship advice for men YouTube Link for this Video: https://youtu.be/oRz2s0GLYO8
Saturday Dec 31, 2022
Saturday Dec 31, 2022
Should I use a pick up line or just go up and talk to the girl? Actually, you might be surprised that even the best pick up line may have the effect of turning her off instead of getting you a proper chance with her. Hi its David Bower And this week I want to talk about the differences between openers versus pickup lines. In my last video I briefly brushed over what openers were versus pick up lines and why I personally don't use pickup lines. Some of you have expressed that you would like me to go a little deeper on those differences ... so here we go. By the end of this episode you will have a clear understanding of one of the best and most natural ways to approach women and how to not sound corny when you're doing it.
As always, Get out there and Ace it!
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 Introduction
01:14 Pick Up Lines vs. Openers
01:46 Pick Up Line Advantages and Disadvantages
02:16 Opener Advantages and Disadvantages
02:47 How to Come Up with Good Openers
03:51 Conclusion
#attraction
#attraction psychology
#confidence
#dating advice
#dating advice for men
#relationship advice for men
YouTube Link for this Video: https://youtu.be/SR_aF_XTB34
Saturday Dec 24, 2022
Saturday Dec 24, 2022
How to Talk to a Girl Pt 1 Video Link: https://youtu.be/2j5mDrvQBG4 How to Talk to a Girl Pt 2 Video Link: https://youtu.be/_-7z7yAQNjk Welcome to part three of this three-part series on how to talk to a girl. In this third part of the How to Talk to a Girl Series we're going to talk about overthinking our initial approach when going to talk to a woman and why that's a bad thing. We as humans in general tend to overthink a lot when it comes to doing something that might be a little scary and this is also true for when we as men go to make that first approach with a woman. By the end of this video you will be able to stop yourself from overthinking your initial approach to the woman so that you can just go up and start creating attraction with her. As always, Get out there and Ace it! Website: https://www.aceofheartsacademy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ace-of-Hearts-Academy-146510247533183/ Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEO1vSBskhpGUH8APoer41w iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mens-dating-advice-from-ace-of-hearts-academy/id1614493580 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hY2Utb2YtaGVhcnRzLWFjYWRlbXkuY2FwdGl2YXRlLmZtL3Jzc2ZlZWQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aceofheartsacademy/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AceofHeartsAca1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/aceofheartsacademy/_saved/ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction 01:00 Why Men Overthink Approaching Women 02:11 The Psychology of Talking to a Girl 02:50 How to Confidently Talk to a Girl 03:29 Techniques for Talking to a Girl 04:03 Conclusion #attraction #attraction psychology #confidence #dating advice #dating advice for men #relationship advice for men YouTube Link for this Video: https://youtu.be/J46E2QwUjx0
Saturday Dec 17, 2022
Saturday Dec 17, 2022
For Part 2 of this series I talk about approach anxiety and what happens to create it. We as men tend to think of ourselves as fearless warriors on the battlefield. But, when it comes to approaching a woman that all goes out the window. I believe one of the primary reasons this happens is we as men are very prone to approach anxiety when it comes to approaching women. By the end of this video you will not only understand why you might suffer from approach anxiety when it comes to approaching women but also how to counter it so you can create massive attraction with women. How to Talk to a Girl Pt 1 Video Link: https://youtu.be/2j5mDrvQBG4 As always, Get out there and Ace it! Website: https://www.aceofheartsacademy.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ace-of-Hearts-Academy-146510247533183/ Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCEO1vSBskhpGUH8APoer41w iTunes: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mens-dating-advice-from-ace-of-hearts-academy/id1614493580 Google Podcasts: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hY2Utb2YtaGVhcnRzLWFjYWRlbXkuY2FwdGl2YXRlLmZtL3Jzc2ZlZWQ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aceofheartsacademy/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/AceofHeartsAca1 Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/aceofheartsacademy/_saved/ TIMESTAMPS 00:00 Introduction 01:07 Why Men Suffer from Approach Anxiety Around Women 01:57 How to Stop Approach Anxiety Around Women 03:34 Conclusion #attraction #attraction psychology #confidence #dating advice #dating advice for men #relationship advice for men YouTube Link for this Video: https://youtu.be/_-7z7yAQNjk